The more I work, the more I learn. What works for some brides, don't work for others - right? How can I tell if the next bride likes a direct approach versus a hand holding session? Do I ask out right, or is it intuition? Most would say the latter, but in my experience, I am finding out that this is so much harder than it looks. When I get a complaint, of any nature, it stings like a million angry bees and a billion daggers. This is what a business owner has to deal with. I try my best to please every single person I come into contact with, block bad energy and achieve miracles, but sometimes I fail. Yes, I know - no one is perfect, but striving for perfection is the way I run my show. I am thinking that I will take the comments and keep them in mind, so I don't repeat them. The common thread that I keep running into is that I am blunt and direct and sometimes come across rude.

How can I reiterate to potential clients that this is not the case. Maybe some are sensitive people, maybe some want me to lie to them to make them feel better? I don't know, but I'm gonna find out.